The Struggle

Before I start, I must say that I’m alright… alright in the sense that I’m better than 6 months ago. Until now, I’ve been pure ashamed and embarrassed to come right out and say, “My husband left us for another woman.” I’m sure this happens more than we wish to think and I know I’m not the only one in this same struggle right now.

It just doesn’t seem fair that he gets to move her into his bed (at his mother’s home, at that) and gets to be happy with that while I’m here in an almost empty home with our two-and-a-half year old daughter. As much as I begged and pleaded with him in the beginning of the end to stay to work it out and pave a path to forgiveness, he was just not willing. He gave me reasons such as I was a lazy woman, that I didn’t keep a spotless house, that I never wanted to go out and do anything, that I refused to learn to drive his manual transmission Jeep, and that he hated coming home and having responsibilities. While I don’t claim that he is entirely at fault for the failure of our relationship, there were choices made on his end that just didn’t have to happen.

So, now I lay in bed alone most nights and think about what in the world is so wrong with me to cause this. I know good and well that there was nothing about me that made him go out and find another woman, but that doesn’t stop your brain from thinking in circles. Maybe if I had done this or hadn’t done that… just maybe… then you realize there was nothing you could have done differently. He meet her, fell into temptation (with at least once being in our own bed), and enjoyed it so much he decided to leave a loyal and devoted family to be with her. All the sneaking around, the leaving for work early and getting home really late from work, mystery food purchases at sit-down restaurants, explosive arguments over nothing, sudden attention to personal hygiene, going to the bar to drink socially with co-workers, some nights not coming home at all… all started to make sense once he finally admitted having an affair.

It was like a burning, ripping fire that consumed my heart once he finally came out and said it. There’s nothing to describe it. You literally can’t breathe, you can’t even cry, your body just automatically implodes upon itself and you ball up on the floor as he stands over you emotionless… you’re in complete shock even though you had suspicion. That woman’s intuition.

And then as the days go by, the questions come.

“Where did Da-da go?”

“Is Da-da at work?”

“There’s a red Jeep like Da-da’s! Da-da?”

And you try super hard not to start to hate love. You fall on your face to pray at the church altar, in the shower, in the truck driving some place, even in your Grandpa Bill’s callused hands and just can’t even find the words to pray.

Then comes Valentine’s Day and you get flowers. What an insult. Then, just 3 days later, a notification of a civil suit for division of assets for separation and divorce. Restraining Orders, Domestic Violence issues, Court, lawyers. Then, also child custody issues. Who gets her what days and at what time and where to meet to exchange the child like she’s a possession instead of a person. You worry that this other woman is teaching her to call her “mama” when the child is with them, along with a long list of other concerns. Such as, what if your child gets attached to this woman and then she leaves? 

Don’t get me wrong, I’m so over this man. I was betrayed by him and his family, who I believe knew about her well before I did and didn’t bother to tell me. And he’s still wearing his wedding band and making people believe that I’m the reason why he left. I’m not a bitter woman, really I’m not. Just very, very hurt. Especially when he was your first and only love. I don’t hate him either, but boy have I learned from this. When I look at his face, I feel nothing. He’s a complete stranger to me.

I know God has my person out there for me, getting him ready for me and getting me ready for him. Until then, I need to chill out and be patient. But, I’m SO ready for him, like right now. I’m not being very patient. However, I’m trusting God’s timing for He knows the plans He has for me.  “I waited patiently for the Lord; he turned to me and heard my cry. He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.” Psalm 40:1-2

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THANK YOU, LORD for this experience. I praise You because You know the plans you have for me and my daughter. I thank you for your loving hand on our situation. Dear Father, today was one of those days – You know the ones. When life just doesn’t make sense. When the world seems so unfair. I need you, I need you. I need you to wrap your arms around me and help me understand that it is a good thing that I don’t understand everything. How can my human mind possibly comprehend Your perfect plan? You are God. I am not. You spoke this world into existence and shaped humans from the dust. Only you can create beauty from the ashes. Prepare me to be a Godly wife to the person you have just for me. Help me anticipate the perfect work of Your hands to transform my nothing into Your everything. Amen.

 

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A Little Slip Stitch

When working with crochet stitches, the little slip stitch tends to get many of us crafters in a tizzy. It’s just a tiny place marker stitch of little significance, right? It’s not the most impressive, outstandingly beautiful, or most impressive stitch to learn to create, but it has great significance.

Generally speaking, slip stitches are most commonly used to connect two ends of a row/round when making something like a hat, for example. To make slip stitch (abbreviated “sl st” in patterns):

With a loop on your hook, insert your hook into the next stitch, pull up a loop, and then pull the yarn through the loop on your hook. Little sl st created.

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If this stitch is so small, why even use it? Why do you need it at all? Why not use a fancier stitch like a double crochet or even, oh, the popcorn stitch? Well, even though they are tiny and don’t seem to serve much of a purpose upon first observation, they are rather versatile little guys. As I mentioned previously, the main objective to using a sl st is to join one side of your work to another. Think of it as a little bridge. Without it, the two sides of your work just don’t go together and you’ll be left with an unattractive hole in your work.

Slip stitches can also be used to “sew” several pieces of work together, such as squares to make up a small baby blanket right on up to a King bed size afghan. Without the humble sl st, the pieces would just be small squares that wouldn’t be a very much use nor would they keep you very warm.

The most impressive, yet still humble, use for the sl st is as a design element. Since a sl st is the smallest stitch used, it lets the larger, more extravagant stitches shine. With the sl st nestled between the fancy stitches, it is not as likely to be noticed in comparison to the other stitches unless you look closely. You may have to even pull the other stitches apart to find the sl st happily hiding in the shadows.

 The last project I completed required a lot of slip stitches. As I was working on this particular piece, I was reminded of the Biblical story of David and Goliath. The account of the great battle between the Israelites and the Philistines can be found in 1 Samuel, Chapter 17. The Philistines were proud of their giant warrior, Goliath, which the Bible describes as being “six cubits and a span” tall with “bronze helmet on his head and wore a coat of scale armor of bronze weighing five thousand shekels; on his legs he wore bronze greaves, and a bronze javelin was slung on his back. His spear shaft was like a weaver’s rod, and its iron point weighed six hundred shekels.” Goliath was an impressive chunk of man flesh standing approximately 9 foot tall, clad in heavy armor that weighed about 175 pounds combined, and with an arrogant attitude… and the Israelites were terrified.

Goliath demanded that the Israelites choose just one man to fight him. “If he is able to fight and kill me, we will become your subjects; but if I overcome him and kill him, you will become our subjects and serve us,” Goliath shouted. This went on for 40 long days and nights. Goliath was just too big, too impressive, too strong.

Now, comes young David. He had brothers fighting on the Israelite side and Jesse, their father, sent David with some food (“ten cheeses”) to the commander and to check on this brothers “and bring back assurance from them.” David got up that morning and left their flock of sheep in the care of a shepherd, loaded up the food, and set out to check on his brothers. When he arrived, the two sides were facing each other, weapons drawn. David left his supplies and ran to the battle line to see about his brothers. “As he was talking with them, Goliath, the Philistine champion from Gath, stepped out from his lines and shouted his usual defiance, and David heard it. Whenever the Israelites saw the man, they all fled from him in great fear.”

That’s when the youth David, stepped up and said, “Let no one lose heart on account of this Philistine; your servant will go and fight him.”

Whoa! Hold the phone, David! This giant Goliath has been trained to be a warrior since he was young. David, you are just a young boy!

That’s when David told Saul of the Israelite army that “Your servant has been keeping his father’s sheep. When a lion or a bear came and carried off a sheep from the flock,  I went after it, struck it and rescued the sheep from its mouth. When it turned on me, I seized it by its hair, struck it and killed it. Your servant has killed both the lion and the bear; this uncircumcised Philistine will be like one of them, because he has defied the armies of the living God. The Lord who rescued me from the paw of the lion and the paw of the bear will rescue me from the hand of this Philistine.”

Imagine that kind of faith. Saul felt it, too. He helped David prepare for battle by dressing him in a typical battle attire – a suit of armor, a bronze helmet, and a heavy sword. The armor was so heavy, that David couldn’t walk around in the armor. Instead, he took it all off and asked for 5 smooth stones from the river.

So, David stood before Goliath “glowing with health and handsome” with a stick and a handful of rocks and Goliath was offended and despised David. Goliath yelled at him that he was going to give David’s flesh to the birds and wild animals. David stood and proclaimed, “You come against me with sword and spear and javelin, but I come against you in the name of the Lord Almighty, the God of the armies of Israel, whom you have defied. This day the Lord will deliver you into my hands, and I’ll strike you down and cut off your head. This very day I will give the carcasses of the Philistine army to the birds and the wild animals, and the whole world will know that there is a God in Israel. All those gathered here will know that it is not by sword or spear that the Lord saves; for the battle is the Lord’s, and he will give all of you into our hands.”

David ran towards Goliath, taking a stone, placing it into his sling, and let it fly. Could you imagine the breathless moments as the stone flew through the air and them landed with a thud into Goliath’s giant forehead… and then as 9 foot tall Goliath fell face first into the dusty ground.

Goliath was an impressive beast. David, the slip stitch.

There are so many lessons to be learned from this story, but the one I want to make is that no matter how insignificant or lowly you seem and feel, just remember the little slip stitch and David. You don’t have to be a fancy stitch, just a faithful small stitch will do.

 

 

What Crocheting Has Taught Me About God

Coming up on three years ago when I was pregnant with my now two-and-a-half year old daughter, I found myself longing to learn something new. “I think I will learn to crochet,” I told myself. I gathered up some suggested materials, sat down with a printed pattern described as “beginner” and “easy” and quickly got frustrated. “How could Vanna look so happy on this label of this skein of yarn?!,”  I thought to myself, “My face certainly doesn’t look like that right now.”

Grrr.

I could not get the yarn to cooperate and after several failed attempts, I threw the yarn and crochet hook down and walked away. But, I was determined… after watching some youtube videos (and backing them up and watching them again… and again…) I successfully completed my first basic granny square. My stitches were clumsy and too tight in some places and too loose in others. I had trouble finding where to put the hook for the next stitch. But, you know what? I didn’t give up. Not even after being discouraged about my work not looking perfect… and definitely not like the work in the picture of the pattern.

So in the evenings after my daughter is snuggled into her bed, I pick up some yarn and my crochet hook and sit on the couch with a mug of herbal tea, with the glow of a candle flickering on the table. After a row or two of counting and getting into the rhythm, I converse with God.

Sometimes I tend to be my worst critic and beat myself up. Sometimes things just don’t seem to be working out very well. Sometimes I get frustrated, doubt myself and sometimes I feel throwing in the towel on things more often than I should. I think that I’m not a good enough Mom, that I could put forth more effort at work, that I don’t read my Bible enough or pray enough. I think that I’m a really crappy friend and I’m not a very good example as an older sister to my sister and brother. That there’s something about me that caused my husband to not want to be married to me anymore. That my house is not sparkling clean and things are falling apart. I have thought about it all in some form or another as I sit alone with my crochet.

Sitting in the (almost) silence, with the clock ticking, the hum of the refrigerator, or the puppy crunching happily on her food, the soft glow of my candle… I enjoy the pull and feel of the yarn between my fingers. The pattern nestled in my lap as I read it line by line and end up with a finished hat or a scarf or a baby blanket that will be enjoyed and used – the culmination of my talents. Sometimes I mess up and realize much later and have to rip out several rows and redo my work. Sometimes the size just doesn’t turn right or I accidentally use the wrong type of yarn or the wrong size hook and I have to start all over from scratch with fresh “string” and a fresh outlook. But, no matter how the stitches look or how the finished product turns out, I would be proud of my finished accomplishment and I would love it.

When I started out crocheting, I had no idea that I would learn more than just how to make a starting chain, triple crochets, or slip stitches, but I ended up learning so much more. Yes, I mess up. Yes, things are not going to turn out exactly the way I think they should. Yes, I’m going to have to start from scratch on occasion. A lot of my crochet mistakes could be prevented if I had just read and followed the pattern instead of just telling myself, “You’ve got this… keep going and it will be just fine.” It got me thinking that the ultimate pattern I should follow for this life is the Word of God, the Bible. It’s the ultimate instruction book. Does that mean I’m still not going to screw up and repent? Nope. But, it does offer love and and hope and forgiveness and so much more for my screw ups.

And times when I meditate and ask God, “Why is this happening to ME?” God loves me no matter what, screw ups included. Each day is like a stitch in my crochet work. Sometimes they turn out well, and sometimes they don’t, but either way there’s another one coming, Lord willing. And God still loves the whole me… the whole work in progress. There’s even a verse about it:

“For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.” — Psalm 139:13

Wow! Mind-blowing stuff! God made me and knit ME (ME!) together! Every stitch, every part lovingly. Every time my mind thinks I’m not perfect, that things are just not going to get better, I just pick up my crochet. “Let’s talk, God.” -K

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Crochet Chicken Earflap Hat DIY Pattern

Crochet Chicken Earflap Hat Pattern

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Recently I had a request for a chicken earflap hat and I didn’t have a pattern exactly how I imagined the hat to look. I used a free basic earflap hat pattern from Micah Makes, which you can find here. I omitted the color changes for the stripes and added another row of sc around the edge of the hat in tan yarn.

Materials I used:

  • Hobby Lobby’s I Love This Yarn in White
  • Hobby Lobby’s I Love This Yarn in Light Taupe
  • Red Heart Super Saver in Pumpkin
  • Hobby Lobby’s I Love This Yarn in Red
  • 2, 3/4″ Black Buttons
  • I-hook

Patterns for the Features

Eyes, Make 2 in Light Taupe yarn:

Row 1: sc 6 into a Magic Circle, pull tight and join with sl st in first sc.

Row 2: Ch 1, 2 sc into each sc around, join with sl st in first sc.

Row 3: Ch 1, *2 sc in next st, sc in next st. Repeat from * around. Join with sl st in first sc.

Row 4: Ch 1, sc in the first 2 st, 2 sc in next st. Repeat from * around. Join with sl st in first sc. Fasten off yarn and leave a long tail for sewing to the hat.

Pin the eyes to the hat, stitch into place using yarn tail. Then, sew the black button securely to the center of each eye for the pupil.

Beak, Make 1 in Pumpkin yarn:

Row 1: Ch 5, sc in second ch from the hook and across to end.

Row 2: Ch 1, turn, sc2tog twice.

Row 3: Ch 1, turn, sc2tog.

Row 4: Ch 1, sc evenly around the beak. Fasten off yarn and leave a long tail for sewing onto the hat.

Sew the beak between the eyes using the tail of yarn.

Comb, Make 1 in Red yarn:

Ch 51, sc in 2nd ch from the hook and across to the end of the ch. Fasten off and leave a long tail.

Fold the strip into three portions (see picture for folding suggestion) and sew together at the bottom to hold it in place. Then, sew the comb onto the top of the hat.

For braided ties, cut 18 lengths of pumpkin orange yarn 36″ long. Use 9 lengths of yarn for each tie. See this tutorial on how to make the braided ties for your hat by Dearest Debi.

Long-Tail Elf Crochet Hat Free Pattern in Teen/Adult Size

There are lots of smaller sizes of crochet long-tail elf hats floating around the web, but not very many adult size. Here is one that I worked up that will fit an adult head 22-24″.  This pattern is written in US terms. This hat works up nicer if you know how to do the Magic Circle technique and how to change colors in the last stitch of the previous color row. Enjoy!

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LONG-TAIL ELF CROCHET HAT PATTERN

You’ll need:

  • I-hook
  • Worsted Weight (4) Yarn – I used 2 main colors plus 1 accent color

PATTERN:

1:Using a Magic Circle, ch 2 and dc 6 into the circle. Join at the top of the first dc. Pull tight to close.

2 – 32: Ch 2, dc 6 around, join at the top of the first dc.

*NOTE: For a striped hat, change colors every odd numbered row.

33: Ch 2, dc 9 evenly around, join at the top of the first dc.

34: Ch 2, 2 dc in each dc around, join at the top of the first dc.

35: Ch 2, inc 4 evenly around, join at the top of the first dc.

36: Ch 2, inc 3 evenly around, join at the top of the first dc.

37-38: Ch 2, inc 2 evenly around, join at the top of the first dc.

39-41: Ch 2, inc 4 evenly around, join at the top of the first dc.

42-44: Ch 2, inc 6 evenly around, join at the top of the first dc.

45: Ch 2, inc 4 evenly around, join at the top of the first dc.

46: Ch 2, inc 2 evenly around, join at the top of the first dc.

47-50: Ch 2, dc in each st around, join at the top of the first dc.

52: Ch 2, dec 2 stitches evenly around, join at the top of the first dc.

52-53: Ch 2, *fpdc, dc. Repeat from * around, join at the top of the first dc.

Fasten off and weave in ends.

Make a pom pom and attach to the end of the long tail.

This pattern is free for use to make hats for you to to sell. Please reference this pattern link if you list hats online.

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Little Red Monster Cuddle Blankie Pattern

Little Red Monster Cuddle Blankie Pattern Inspired by Sesame Street’s Elmo Character

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Our 21-month-old daughter is a blanket baby and has to have her “bits” when she goes wants to relax. She also loves Sesame Street’s Little Red Monster character, Elmo. Inspiration hit me this weekend as I was sitting at a craft fair at our local farmer’s market and I whipped up this small, simple “Little Red Monster” Cuddle Blankie for her. I would rate the pattern overall as easy. Here’s what I did:

For the blanket (approximately 12″ by 12″):

J-hook

Worsted weight yarn:

  • Hobby Lobby’s I Love This Yarn! in Red
  • Hobby Lobby’s I Love This Yarn! in White
  • Hobby Lobby’s I Love This Yarn! in Black (just a small scrap piece for the mouth)
  • Red Heart in Carrot or Pumpkin (you’ll only need a scrap for the orange nose)

Pattern note: This is a simple corner-to-corner square and it’s not totally my original pattern. This particular style of square has been around for quite some time and there is not an author who I am aware of to credit this work.

1. Using red yarn: Ch 4, sc in 2nd ch from the hook and in the next 2 ch. (3 sc)

2. *For remainder of pattern, work in BACK LOOPS ONLY (BLO)* Ch 1, turn, 2 sc in first sc, sc in next sc, 2 sc in last sc. (5 sc)

3. Ch 1, turn, 2 sc in first sc, sc in each sc to last sc, 2 sc in last sc.

**REPEAT row 3 until the side of the square measures approximately 10.5-11″. Quick geometry lesson: You’ll be measuring the LEG of the triangle, not the HYPOTENUSE. In other words, the LEG of the triangle will be one of the four sides of your finished square.

Next Rows: Ch 1, turn, sc2tog in first two sc from previous row, sc in each sc to last two sc, sc2tog in last two sc.

**REPEAT this pattern until you have four stitches remaining. At this point, you’ll have a square worked on the diagonal.

Last Row: Ch 1, turn, sc2tog twice, finish off and weave in ends.

Edging: Join white yarn to any sc with a sl st. Ch 1, sc in same st, sc in next st, picot in next st. Repeat around then fasten off white yarn and weave in the ends.

  • Picot: sc, ch 3, sc in 3rd ch.

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For the Little Red Monster:

G-hook

Stuffed Critter Fluff (ex: Polyfil brand)

Yarn colors listed above (red, white, black, orange)

Two small black buttons and white thread to sew them on.

Stitch marker (optional) – Since this portion is worked in continuous rounds.

ARMS: Make 2, of course.

1. Working into a Magic Circle, sc 6. Do not join – work in continuous rounds.

2. 2 sc in each sc around.

3. sc in each sc around. Repeat this row until the arm is 4″ long. Fasten off leaving a long tail for sewing the arms onto the blanket. I didn’t stuff the arms, but you are welcome to stuff them if you prefer.

HEAD:

1. Working into a Magic Circle, sc 6. Do not join – work in continuous rounds.

2. 2 sc in each sc around.

3. sc in sc, 2sc in next sc. Repeat around.

4. sc around.

5. sc 2, 2 sc in next st. Repeat around.

6. sc 3, 2 sc in next st. Repeat around.

7. sc 4, 2 sc in next st. Repeat around.

8 – 11. sc around. Stuff head at this point.

12. 4 sc, sc2tog in next two st. Repeat around.

13. 3 sc, sc2tog in next two st. Repeat around.

14. 2 sc, sc2tog in next two st. Repeat around.

15. sc, sc2tog in next two st. Repeat around, then fasten off, leaving a long tail for sewing the head closed and onto the blanket.

EYES: Make 2.

1. Using white yarn: Working into a Magic Circle, sc 10. Fasten off and leave a long tail for sewing the eyes onto the head.

2. Using sewing thread or DMC embroidery thread in white, sew the black buttons onto the center of each white crochet circle to finish the eyes. NOTE: If you are making this for a baby or a small child that likes to bite or pull at things, stitch the blacks of the eyes using yarn or thread instead. The buttons are a choking hazard.

NOSE:

1. Working into a Magic Circle, sc 6 into the ring. Do not join.

2. 2 sc in each sc around (12 sc total). Fasten off and leave a long tail for sewing onto the head. _________

At this point, you’ll have your:

  • Square blanket
  • 2 arms
  • 1 head
  • 2 eyes
  • 1 nose

Using the tails from the eyes and nose, stitches the pieces onto the head. See the photo for placement suggestion. With a scrap piece of black yarn, stitch a smile onto the face.

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Then, find the center of the blanket by folding it in half, and then in half again. Mark it with a pin. With the long tail left at the bottom of the head, stitch the head using small, sturdy stitches to the center of the blanket.

Next, place the arms on either side of the head and stitch them down with small, sturdy stitches to the blanket. I placed the arms on my sample right next to the head and stitched them down.

Ta-da! You are completed your Little Red Monster Cuddle Blankie! Enjoy!

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Turtle Amigurumi & Turtle Shell Hexagon Baby Blankie

For this project, I used the Turtle Crochet Along Pattern – “Sheldon” from Little Muggles. You can find the free amigurumi pattern for Sheldon here. You can also find Little Muggles on Facebook.

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I made my first attempt in classic turtle colors in greens and browns as a baby shower gift for a little guy, but a non-traditional version is in the works!

If you like the colors I used to make my Sheldon the Turtle, here is what I used:

Caron Simply Soft in Bone for his head, legs/feet, tail

Lion Brand Vanna’s Choice in Dusty Green for top of his shell

Red Heart Super Saver in Cafe for the bottom of his shell

Michael’s Loop and Threads Snuggly Wuggly in Silly Sprite

I stitched the amigurumi turtle as specified in the pattern using a G-hook (4.00 mm) except I crocheted in the back loops only (BLO) for row 18. This is the row for the color change from the olive green to the brown for the bottom of the shell. Stitching in the BLO helps the bottom of the shell lay more flat once it is stuffed with the polyester stuffing. The black safety eyes are pretty easy to find, but I purchased mine from Joann’s Fabrics. They also come in colors and different sizes if you prefer to change up the look.

For the hexagon motif turtle shell blankie, I used this free Interchangable Hexagon pattern from Galler Yarns by Marie Segares. I used the circle hexagon option with a few modifications. I used a J-hook (6.00 mm) since the pattern didn’t call for any particular size and I wanted the blanket to be lighter weight for summer and more stretchy. To begin, I used the magic ring method and double crocheted 13 into the ring and joined to the top of the first double crochet. I did not count the chains at the beginning of each round as a stitch and added an additional double crochet in each round as a result. I do this because I don’t like the look of using chain stitches a stitch in the structure of a motif. If this is not your cup of tea or if it makes you nervous to change up a pattern, you are welcome to make the motif as written. It turns out just fine as written.

I used the Snuggly Wuggly yarn in Silly Sprite for rounds 1 through 3 then changed color to the Caron Simply Soft in Bone for round 4. I made a total of 31 of the motifs and arranged them in 4 rows of 4 and 3 rows of 5. You can make as many as you wish to make the blankie smaller or larger. The 31 motif blankie was big enough to be used as a car seat blanket.

Now, to attach the hexagon motifs together I used the Red Heart in Cafe using a H-hook (5.00 mm). I held two motifs wrong sides together and single crocheted them together in the back loop of each motif. In the corners I worked 2 sc. This takes some time to think through how to arrange your motifs, so you may have to lay them all out on a table or on the floor and make a “game plan” on how you want to attach them. For mine, I started out with a couple of central hexagons, then added hexagons along each edge of the central hexagons and went from there.

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Attach motifs together with SC

CentralHexsWhen you get to the point when you are attaching hexagons together and come across a portion you have already connected, here is what I did to make the connections look more finished. I inserted my hook into the sc near the connection point and slip stitched into it. Just that easy! If you just fasten off your yarn at the last sc of the motif connection, you’ll have a gap that doesn’t look quite as neat.

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For the edging, I used the Red Heart in Cafe and the H-hook and single crocheted around the edge. In the corners that “stick out”, you’ll want to do 2 sc in those and for the corners that “come in” you’ll want to sc2tog over two stitches. This will make the blanket edge lay more flat.

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After all the motifs are connected and the edging is completed weave in all those ends and you’re done!

If you don’t want to make this yourself, I’ll be happy to make a turtle, the blanket, or the set for you! I welcome custom orders.